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不识字妈妈教出高材生女儿:菠萝妈妈的绝招,你也可以学会

2018/09/26 09:11:00

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一个没上过学的妈妈,靠卖菠萝为生,不知道该怎样教育女儿。但她遇到问题不回避,尊重并支持孩子的想法,教会孩子从实践中学习。最终,小女孩成为本科毕业的高材生。



泰国的这则公益视频《菠萝冰棍的故事》,根据真人真事改编,小女孩Achara Poonsawat最终获得Sarnrak项目奖学金,并于2013年完成本科学位,故事打动了无数人。菠萝妈妈使用的绝招,并非什么高深莫测的招数,你也完全可以在教育孩子时借鉴。


An illiterate mother, living on selling pineapple, had nothing to teach her daughter, but respected and supported daughter’s idea, which cultivated her daughter’s ability to learn from practice. In the end, the little girl become a good scholar.


It is a charity video, called “Pineapple popsicle”, adapted from a true story in Thailand. Achara Poonsawat, the little girl, won the scholarship for the Sarnrak Project and completed her undergraduate degree in 2013. The story touched many people’s heart. The way that mother use isn't enigmatic, and we can learn from it when cultivating our children.



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放学后,小伙伴们三三两两,一起吃冰棍。小女孩站在那里,馋得直咽口水。这一幕,妈妈看在眼里。


After school, seeing other children eating ice lolly together, while her little girl standing by and swallowing her mouth, the mother was very distressed.


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可卖菠萝为生的她,一天也赚不了几个钱。怎么办呢?在小女孩睡觉后,妈妈把菠萝切成冰棍的形状,放在冰块中降温。


第二天,小女孩吃到了美味的菠萝冰棍。


小女孩由此脑洞大开:“妈妈,我们应该把它卖出去。”


妈妈眼前一亮。她不但尊重小女孩的想法,还一起制作菠萝冰棍,用实际行动支持小女孩。


She earned little money one day by selling pineapple. How to do? After the little girl went to sleep, she cut the pineapple into ice cubes and put it in ice.


Second day, the little girl could enjoy the delicious pineapple popsicle.


The little girl had a good idea and said, "Mom, we should sell it."


Mom’s eye lit up. She not only respected the little girl's idea, but also supported the little girl with practical action by making pineapple popsicles.


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而我们很多人,面对同样的情况,往往只会斥责孩子:


“一边玩,不要耽误我做事情。”

“吃好快点去做作业。”

“太异想天开了!”


Many of us, facing the same situation, often blame children:


"get out. Don't bother me any more."

" hurry up to do your homework."

"It's fantastic!"



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抱着冰盒里的三根菠萝冰棍,小女孩边走边吆喝:“要不要吃菠萝冰棍?”


没有人买菠萝冰棍。


直到所有冰块都化成冰水,小女孩的三根菠萝冰棍,一根都没有卖出去。


Holding the ice box with three pineapple popsicles, the little girl shouted, " who want pineapple popsicles?"


Actually, no one bought her pineapple popsicles.


Until all the ice was turned into ice water, the little girl's three pineapple popsicles were not sold.


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“为什么没有人买呢?”小女孩问妈妈。


妈妈说:“你去菜市场,看看其他人是怎么卖东西的。”


"Why didn't anyone buy it?" The little girl asked her mother.


Mom said, "you should go to the vegetable market to see how the other people sell things."


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当孩子遇到难题的时候,我们身边的很多人,常见的做法是为孩子“代劳”:


“不要再折腾了,我替你做吧。”

“别烦我了,明天去问老师。”


菠萝妈妈不同,她没有教小女孩具体做法,而是让小女孩自己去摸索做事情的方法。


When children encounter difficulties, many people around us also “take care of the children":


"Stop worrying about it. I'll do it for you."

"Don't bother me, ask the teacher tomorrow."


Pineapple mother is different, she did not teach the little girl specific practices, but let the little girl to explore their own ways to do things.



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卖辣椒的小贩,“5块一袋,10块3袋”。卖烤肉的小贩,喊着“又香又软的烤肉,一咬满嘴汁”……


小女孩豁然开朗。


跑回家后,小女孩制作了菠萝冰棍海报,并在冰盒前写好大字:“菠萝棒冰,每口好滋味。5块一支,10块3支。”


The hawker selling pepper, "5 Baht for 1 bag, 10 Baht for 3 bags". The barbecued hawker shouted, "sweet and soft barbecue, a mouthful of juice".


The little girl was suddenly enlightened.


After running home, the little girl made a pineapple popsicle poster and wrote it in big letters in front of the ice box: "Pineapple popsicle, every bite tastes good. 5 Baht for 1 piece, 10 Baht for 3 pieces. "


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菠萝冰棍一下子供不应求。


只要一听到小女孩的自行车响铃,喜欢吃菠萝冰棍的小伙伴们,便一窝蜂围了上来。


The pineapple popsicle suddenly falls short of demand, as soon as the little girl's bicycle bell rung, the pineapple popsicles fans come and swarmed around her.


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在实践中发现问题,在实践中解决问题,小女孩掌握了最重要的生存技能。正如菠萝妈妈说的那样,不管以后在不在身边,都相信自己的孩子能过得很好。


Finding problems in practice and solving them in practice, the little girl mastered the most important survival skills. As the pineapple mother said, even thoughshe was not living with her in the future, she believed that her daughter could live well.



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一个不识字的妈妈,用她朴实无华的方法,教出了一个获得奖学金的高材生女儿。与其说这是一个奇迹,不如说菠萝妈妈get了教育的真谛。


英国教育家洛克主张“鼓励和培养孩子的好奇心”,菠萝妈妈与小女孩一起制作菠萝冰棍;中国古代典籍有言,“授人以鱼不如授人以渔”,菠萝妈妈让孩子自己摸索做事情的方法;德国教育实践家瓦根舍因提出了“范例教学”理论并强调“率先实践”,菠萝妈妈教会小女孩最重要的生存技能。


An illiterate mother taught a high-caliber scholar's daughter in an unadorned way. It is not a miracle, because the pineapple mother got the essence of education.


British educator Locke advocated "encouraging and cultivating children's curiosity", pineapple mother and little girl make pineapple ice hockey together; ancient Chinese books have said, "teaching people fishing is better than giving people fish", pineapple mother let children explore their own ways to do things; German education practitioner Vaugenshein put forward "example teaching" Theory and emphasized “taking the lead in practice". Pineapple mother cultivated little girls the most important survival skills.


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闵行万科双语的孩子们依照教学楼的地势实践学习多米诺效应,学习不局限于教室,只要学生们想,德英乐处处是课堂。


菠萝妈妈教育孩子的方法,德英乐全部在做,而且更为系统。DARE TO DREAM,鼓励孩子们敢于梦想,激发蕴藏在孩子们身体里的巨大潜能,共同拥抱充满无限可能的美好未来。


The method that the pineapple mother cultivated her is what DTD is now conducting and more systematic. DARE TO DREAM, encourages children to dream, stimulates the great potential hidden in their bodies, and embraces a bright future full of limitless possibilities.


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学生自己画的校徽,我们进行再设计,你的每一个想法,我们尊重、鼓励并守护。


菠萝妈妈培养出了一个高材生,成百上千个高材生正在德英乐茁壮成长。欢迎加入德英乐,和我们一起,用教育的真谛,让泰国小女孩那样的奇迹变得触手可及!


Pineapple mother has cultivated an excellent student. Hundreds of high school students are thriving in DTD. Welcome to DTD, join us, with the true meaning of education, so that the miracle of a little Thai girl becomes within reach!

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